Vanity & Eli
“If ever two were one, then surely we. Choosing each other on this day, and every one after.”
Our Story
A mutual friend invited us both to the same Christmas party. As we'd only learn later, we each left thinking the exact same thing: I could never just walk up to them. So we didn't. We each went back to that friend, separately, and asked about the other. She never gave much away. She simply told each of us, quietly, that we should reach out. So we did.
A year after dating, on January 15th, 2026, Eli insisted Vanity book a mani-pedi (he wanted a pedicure, if we're honest). Then they hiked up a mountain, where Eli produced a single golden rose; an anniversary gift, and a very good distraction. While Vanity admired it, Eli got down on one knee. He says he has never been more sure of anything. They're marrying on that same date, one year on.
We built this day the way we strive to build everything: on purpose, together. Eli wanted to be surrounded by the people who he feels have truly shown up for them. Vanity's happiest memories are of family gathered around a shared meal. So that's the whole plan: We'll marry, then we'll eat, talk, and take pictures late into the evening. No formal dancing, no rush. Just the people we love and a very long dinner.
Moments
The Day
No formal dancing, no schedule to race through. Just vows, a shared meal, and good conversation.
The playlist so far
What to Wear
We'll be in áo dài. For our guests, we'd love garden-formal attire in our colors; not required. Please do not wear ivory, white, or gold colors.
RSVP
Our reply-by date has passed and we are finalizing the details with our venue. If your plans have changed or you still need to reach us, please email us and we will do our very best.
Pick any date up to our October 15 reply-by and we'll add a gentle RSVP reminder to your own calendar.
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We can't wait to share a table with you.
We'll miss you, and we'll raise a glass in your honor.
We haven't been able to confirm a place for you. Please email us and we'll sort it out together.
Virtual Guestbook
For those who can't make it! We will take your words and add them to the physical guestbook.
Your note will appear here once Vanity & Eli have had a chance to read it.
Notes are gently reviewed before they appear.
Be the first to leave a note.
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The Gallery
Moments you caught on the day. Tap any photo to see it full size.
The first photos will appear here soon.
Share your photos
Add the moments you captured. Vanity & Eli give each one a quick look before it joins the gallery.
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Review
Where do I find it?
Supabase → Project Settings → API → Project API keys → service_role → Reveal. Not the publishable key. Saved only on this device, never in the website.
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Tables are 60″ rounds (seat 8). Drag a table to move it on the floor plan; tap a table to select it, then tap a guest below to seat them. Saved on this device.
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Everyone attending has a seat.
Tap a table on the plan to see who’s seated there and assign guests.
No song requests yet. Guests can add them from their account.
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No sign-ins yet. As guests create accounts they appear here.
To approve what guests share, paste your Supabase service_role key in “Connect your review key” above. Then photos, notes and RSVPs all load here. It’s saved only on this device.
The photo QR card
Print it for your tables or set it by the guestbook. The code opens a private upload page - only guests with it can add photos; the gallery is open for everyone to see.
Sign in
Takes 30 seconds. Then you never need to hunt for your invite link again.
To create an account, open the personal invite link we sent you first. That’s how we know which invitation is yours. Already have an account? Sign in instead.
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Your name updates everywhere you appear on the site. Changing your email sends a confirmation link to the new address before it takes effect.
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Change your reply any time before October 15.
You haven’t added any photos yet. Anything you share will appear here. Edit the caption or remove it any time (edits go back for a quick re-check).
A few songs you’d love to hear over dinner and into the evening.
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No requests yet. Add a song or two you’d love to hear.
Your guestbook messages. Edit any one and we'll take another quick look before it's back up.
We'll take a quick peek, then it goes up in the guestbook.
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We'll take another quick look after your edit.
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The Honey Fund
We've already built a home together, so there's no toaster we're missing. What we're saving for is the honeymoon. The first trip of our married life. If you'd like to contribute, you can send a gift by Zelle to VandE@MccrearyFamily.com. No expectation.
Questions
None planned, but welcome where available! This is an evening for eating, talking, and being together. Come ready to linger till 9 pm.
Please do! Picture-taking is officially part of the program.
No registry — we're gratefully collecting for our honeymoon instead. Gifts can be sent by Zelle to VandE@MccrearyFamily.com
We chose an adults-only wedding. Your invitation notes who's included. Questions? Just ask us.
The invite link allows access to RSVP. The direct website does not.
Save the details
Save this to your phone so you have the time, the address and a number to call without needing signal.